I don't normally do this sort of thing, but when I received an email from the folks at Mother Talk to do a review of the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett, I thought 'what the heck'. I really do like to read and wish I had more time to get lost in a novel, but honestly, I'd rather knit or sew. I knew that if I committed to review this book here, I'd make myself read it. I'm glad that I did.
In a nutshell, The Help is about 3 women in the early 60's in Jackson, Mississippi. Two of the women are black maids, one is a rich white girl. Together, they write a book about the experiences of domestic help and the complicated relationship between the help and the families they work for.
Yeah, this is a LOADED book. It was quite eye opening for me. Jackson, Mississippi is not all that far from Baton Rouge, Louisiana, so I can't help but think that things here weren't all that different. The characters and descriptions were so real and familiar to me. I struggled with what to write about this because I'm so full of emotion.
Early in the book, my heart broke for the maids. These women took care of white babies, raised them, loved them, but then one day those babies stopped being color blind and a line was drawn. So, so sad. This is something I never thought about. On the flip side, there were some touching stories as well - not all rich white ladies were bad. It was the ignorance of the society that was most infuriating. We've grown so much since then, but I can still see some of that ignorance today, which I guess is why I was so touched by this book.
Ultimately, the message in the book is of hopeful change. These woman were courageous in such a dangerous time. My favorite quote in the novel regarding the point of their book is
"Wasn't that the point of the book? For women to realize, We are just two people. Not that much separates us. Not nearly as much as I'd thought."
When I read this, I dog eared the page. Later, in the acknowledgments, the author stated that was her prized line. I suppose this was the point of her book as well, at least that's what I took from it.
Though this novel is fiction, it makes me want to know more. I'd like to read some autobiographies of people who lived through this.
Yes, I recommend this wonderful book. I laughed, I cried, I'm still thinking about the characters today. I think it'd make a great book club book because there are so many topics to discuss. In the near future on the Mother Talk website, you'll be able to see a collection of excerpts of reviews from all the reviewers. This book is available in book stores now. If you'd like a gently used uncorrected poof of this book, leave a comment, I'll draw a winner at the end of the week, Friday Feb. 20.
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Comments have been closed and the winner is #47 - Tracy!